Divorce can be the worst or best thing
that can happen in your marriage. It does not only involve you and your
spouse but also your children. For this reason, you have to think twice
before deciding on getting a divorce.
If you decide to get one, you have to
understand the procedure that you’ll be going through and be prepared
every step of the way. Typically, divorce involves legal matters. You
have to deal with your bank accounts, properties, debts, inherited
wealth and most of all, child custody.
Once you and your spouse undergo divorce proceedings, all your bank accounts may be summed up and divided
equally. Some encounter their first problem in this event. If one party
feels that the division is unjust, they will have to contest the
decision and offer a better solution. This usually happens for personal
accounts. For joint accounts, the money is divided equally to both
parties.
Next, is your real properties. All your
properties are marked and sorted. These properties needs to be
determined if they were acquired before marriage or not. Some couples
would agree on the things they wanted and what they want to give to the
other party. But for some who can not compromise, they have to undergo
some technical proceedings in determining who gets what.
Debts are also divided equally no matter
who initiated the debt. There are some cases where a party negotiates
to have only a certain percent of the debt to be shouldered for the
reason that they are not the one who used the money. The court will more
than likely divide for this issue.
Inherited wealth is also an issue but if
one party can prove that the inherited wealth is solely given to him or
her before they are married, then it will be awarded. The court will
further investigate on this issue to come up with the most reasonable
decision.
The hardest part of this divorce
proceeding is the children custody. With this, the children are greatly
affected and can suffer emotional stress. Most of the time, under aged
children are awarded custody to the mother and the father is provided
with visitation rights unless each party can provide valid proof that
the other party is unfit to be a guardian. The court will weigh all
these cases and finalize the divorce proceedings.